CREATING A POSITIVE SELF IMAGE IN CHILDREN

With all the media messages surrounding our children, it’s amazing that they grow up to be healthy. And children today are exposed to more media messages than ever before. They watch more television, see more music videos and advertisements and they play more video and computer games. It’s tough to develop a positive self-image when you’re constantly looking at perfection. It’s the job of parents to help their children feel good about themselves. Here are a few tips to help you navigate these often difficult waters.

#1 Be a good role model. There’s nothing harder on a child than hearing a parent berate themselves for the way they look. It’s important that parents at least put up a good front and demonstrate a positive self-image. Children learn by example. If you love your body and are content with the way you look, your child will be more likely to follow your example. They know they come from you and if you’re happy with your appearance, then they should be too.

#2 Show them reality. More and more models are standing up and saying, “We’re airbrushed.” They’re providing real life photos and allowing comparison to the magazine photos. This is a great teaching moment. Young children, girls and boys, look up to their role models. Help your children understand that what they see on television isn’t reality. It’s great lighting, professional make-up and clothing, plastic surgery, and little photography tricks called filters and airbrushing or editing.

Boys are just as much at risk as girls. Boys often worship or look up to professional athletes. It’s important to explain to boys that in addition to the magazine photos being emphasized, painted and airbrushed, many athletes take unnatural measures to achieve their physical results. These unnatural measures, like steroids or working out eight hours a day, are not normal or healthy.

#3 Help your child find what’s beautiful about them. We all likely have something we’d like to change. Maybe it’s our nose,  our hair or our height. However, we also all have things we like about ourselves. Help your child find what they like about themselves. Maybe they like their eyes, or their smile, or their beautiful red hair. Help them focus on the positive things about themselves and to forget about the rest. No one is perfect and everyone is perfect just as they are.

When children can realize that they’re perfect exactly the way they are, they’ll grow up to be strong and confident adults. They’ll be able to manage the occasional bumps and bruises to their ego because they know that deep down, they’re beautiful.

CREATING HEALTHY HABITS FOR LIFE

One of the best ways to prepare your children for a long and healthy life is to get them started early with their own healthy habits. This is best taught by example. When the entire family practices healthy habits, they’re more likely to stick with your children for life. Here are six healthy habits to create for you and your family.

#1 Drink water. Most of us just don’t drink enough water. Sure, we’re hydrated but it’s often with calorie and sugar heavy beverages. Skip the soda, juice and sweetened drinks and stick to water. It may be a tough transition for the entire family. Make the change gradually.

#2 Consume far less during mealtime. We’re a super-sized society. we’re accustomed to eating a lot during mealtime. Work on eating smaller portions during mealtime. Serve more vegetables on the plate and less protein and starchy carbohydrates.

#3 Move your body. Find a way to be active each and every day. Walk or bike to places when you can. Take hikes and family walks together. Play sports or engage in physical activities. The more you’re active as a family and on your own, the more your children will be active too. An active lifestyle is key to a healthy mind and body.

#4 Appreciate food for what it is. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying food and consuming treats in moderation. When people have a healthy appreciation for food, they eat healthier. However, when they use food to soothe their emotions or as a reward, it creates a misguided relationship with food. Children will learn to turn to food as a coping mechanism. Parents can help by not using food as a reward or punishment.

#5 Make more food at home. Takeout and pre-packaged foods are sometimes necessary, but they’re usually not healthy. However, when a family makes food at home using fresh produce they’re more likely to eat healthy and to develop a healthy relationship with food. Make cooking a family activity on the weekends when everyone is home together.

#6 Eat less sugar. Sugar is in just about everything we eat. It’s in bread, sauces, it’s sometimes even in lunchmeat. Help your family break the addiction to sugar by choosing low sugar and no sugar options. Cookies and snacks are okay occasionally, but they shouldn’t be an everyday choice.

One of a parent’s most important responsibilities is to be a good role model. As your child grows they’ll learn about healthy habits from you. They watch, they emulate, and they adopt your habits. Creating healthy habits as a family will help your children grow up healthy and strong. They’ll take the habits they learned as children into adulthood.

BACK TO SCHOOL

As children return to school this January, it is important that parents of school-aged children look at the quality and fit of their child’s backpack, as heavy, incorrectly fitted and badly packed school backpacks can lead to spinal health problems as your child grows.

Spinal health is crucial at any age and items like heavy backpacks may cause strain and discomfort to the spine. I believe spinal pain can be attributed to a number of factors, and heavy and incorrectly worn bags may also lead to poor posture, slouching and uneven hips.

The relationship between spinal health and carrying a heavy backpack may also depend on additional aspects such as your child’s age and weight.

If you’re worried about your child’s backpack weight, here are a few lifestyle and backpack modification tips:
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What to look for in a backpack: 

  1. Make sure the backpack is the right size for your child, no wider than their chest and below the
    hollow of their back
  2. A molded frame on the back, that when adjusted fits their spine.
  3. A bag made from a lightweight material like canvas, with two padded straps
  4. Adjustable waist and sternum straps
  5. Separate compartments that allow for easy packing and weight distribution

 

How to carry the backpack in a spine safe way:

  1. Ensure that the weight of the backpack is no more than 10% of your child’s weight when packed [1]. Only pack essentials to lessen the load, perhaps use school lockers if available.
  2. Pack the heaviest items closest to the spine and make sure all zippers are done up all the way.
  3. Secure the sternum and waist straps (they’re there for a reason)
  4. Always wear both straps. Tell the kids it’s not cool to ‘one-strap it’ anymore.
  5. Reduce the time spent wearing the backpack to no more than 30 minutes at any one time.

Another tip is to ensure your child is undertaking 60 minutes of moderate physical activity every day, as a part of correct spinal care.

I welcome you to make an appointment before school resumes for more advice and assistance on selecting the right backpack, making sure it is fitted correctly to suit your child’s current level of development.

10 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD MAKE FITNESS YOUR PRIORITY

We all know about certain benefits of exercising – above all, that it’s good for us. But this isn’t always enough to get us motivated into actually doing it. If you’re looking for a little inspiration to get started then here are 10 reasons why exercise can improve your life.

 

1) More Energy: Although exercise in itself may be tiring, one of the major benefits of exercising is the fact that it’ll ultimately leave you feeling more energized. Studies have shown that regular exercise helps to reduce fatigue.

2) Increase Your Mood: Every time you exercise your body will release endorphins that help to make you feel good. Exercise really will give you a natural high!

3) Improve Your Health: There are so many health benefits of losing weight that it’s impossible to list them all here! By getting fit you’ll reduce the risk of diabetes, cancer, high blood pressure, stroke, heart disease and much more.

4) Improve Your Appearance: If being overweight or not being toned leaves you feeling unhappy about yourself then losing weight can help you to look and feel better.

5) Play With Your Kids: It takes a lot of energy to keep up with your kids. By losing weight and getting fit, you’ll be able to run around with them without constantly getting out of breath. This can be one of the most rewarding benefits of exercising: it helps you to enjoy life more.

6) Sleep Better: When you exercise more you’ll start to find it easier to get a good night’s rest. This adds to the energy boost that you’ll get from exercise in the long term.

7) Increase Your Strength and Stamina: Do you find it hard to go on long walks, even though you want to? Or maybe even carrying shopping bags up the stairs is a struggle? Exercise more and you’ll eventually be able to handle these activities with ease.

8) Reduce Stress: Exercise can hugely reduce stress levels. If you regularly suffer from stress – or even mental heath issues such as depression and anxiety – regular exercise can help to reduce your symptoms.

9) A Sense Of Achievement: When you start to exercise and see the improvements you’re making week on week, you’ll really get the feeling that you’ve achieved something worthwhile!

10) Keep Your Independence Later In Life: The more you can exercise now, while you’re still able, the more you can reduce the impact of certain health problems later in life. In short, keeping fit and healthy will help you to keep your independence as late into life as possible.

So how much will you need to work out to feel these benefits of exercising? That all depends on your current fitness levels. The good news is that just 30 minutes of exercise a day is enough to improve your health drastically. So what are you waiting for?!

How Parents Can Help Raise Super Healthy Kids

How Parents Can Help Raise Super Healthy Kids

The focus on health and fitness has increased in the past few decades, and it’s not because humans are healthier than ever and want to be even healthier. It is the fact that 2/3 of Americans are either overweight or obese.

Worse yet is the fact that 31.8% of all kids in the United States are either overweight or obese and 16.9% of those are obese.  The UK isn’t far behind with 21% of 10-11 year old (Year 6) measured as obese and a further 14.1% overweight https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/research-briefings/sn03336/ [accessed 11.02.21]

That is definitely putting the pressure on all of us, and on parents to consider ways to raise super healthy kids, instead of those who are plagued by risks of healthy issues as a result of obesity or being overweight.

A lot of us are carrying around extra pounds as a result of harmful lifestyle habits. These habits result in various diseases, disorders and early death.

The problem is made worse by the fact that our young are also susceptible to this problem. The rates of obesity are increasing alarmingly in kids, as almost 1/3 of the children in the US and the UK are overweight.

Is that enough pressure on you as a parent to wonder how to raise super healthy kids?

It should be sufficient, and there are many things, some of them are potentially fun too, that you can do that will help your kids become healthier and form habits that will, hopefully, keep them super healthy throughout their life.

The Building Blocks Of Super Healthy Kids

Healthier Food Habits

This one is relatively easier. Unless you are extraordinary, your kids won’t be doing the cooking for you.

You can control what goes in the food, and decide what the food will be. If you are not cooking at home and order restaurant food every day, start cooking at home. That will mean that you can opt for healthier options.

Food Groups Kids Should Eat From Each Day:

  • Dairy
  • Vegetables
  • Fruits
  • Grains
  • Protein

Servings

Depending on the age of the child, serving sizes differ, so make sure to find out what is ideal for your kids.

Calorie Limits And Portion Control

You should also control the portion sizes. Too much of anything is dangerous.

Did you hear about the kid who died from eating too much broccoli? No? The reason for that might be that that never happened.

However, there has to be a balance of all nutrients. Lopsided intake of calories from a single source will have negative consequences. Aim for a balance.

One of the reasons that the obesity rates are so high among kids is the fact that they eat more than they burn because they do not get the recommended 60 minutes per day of moderate physical activity. https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/832861/2-physical-activity-for-children-and-young-people-5-to-18-years.pdf [ accessed 11.02.21]

Educate yourself on recommended intake that is based on age, gender and activity levels of the child and use that information to plan appropriate meals.

Healthy Eating

Better Food Choices

Ditch all the refined flour products, and opt for the healthier whole-grain substitutes.

Similarly, reduce the salt and fat content. Prudent use of different herbs and spices will maintain the palatability of the food.

Sugar is the one thing kids love, and a lot of it is not good for them.  In fact, the American Heart Association recommends that kids consume a maximum of 12 grams per day, which equals 3 teaspoons.

Homemade fruit ice creams and sorbets can replace the store bought ones. Use unrefined raw sugar or honey, which offer some antioxidants along with sweetness, and you will have a healthier dessert option. Do the same for baked goods.

Baking at home will allow you to control the ingredients and choose healthier substitutions to provide kids with better sweets than those pre-made products that are filled with sugar and preservatives.

Stock your kitchen with healthier snack options:

  • Various fruits
  • Fruit juices without sugar
  • Low and nonfat yogurt fairy products
  • Nuts
  • Flavored whole grain crackers
  • Vegetables
  • Raisins
  • Fruit leather
  • Cereal bars
  • Granola bars
  • Banana chips
  • Zero sugar nutrition bars (beware of artificial sweetener additions)
  • Fig bars
  • Vanilla wafers
  • Fruit and caramel dip
  • Baked chips
  • Vegetable chips
  • Soy crisps
  • Rice cakes
  • Unbuttered popcorn
  • Pita chips
  • Whole wheat pretzels

Healthy Snack

Tackling The Devils

You got an outline of the things that you can do to make your meals healthier. Now the tough part, how to make your kids eat the healthier meals.

Kids are fussy eaters. Sugar and fat register as rewards in the brain, and they want more of it. The same thing will not happen with the healthier options. What is the solution? Talk to them. The rational ability of kids is underestimated. Explain to them the benefits and negative foods in a fun way. Get your imaginative juices flowing.

Forcing a healthier lifestyle will mean that it will be discarded whenever they will get the opportunity, but, by making them realize the benefits of being healthy, you will help them develop habits that will stay with them longer because they chose those habits and you will have super healthy kids!

You can also involve your kids in the cooking process of a new food, making it a fun-filled activity. They will definitely eat some of it.

Cutting and presenting food in different shapes helps in making it seem more appetizing.

Exercise and Physical Activity

Now that you have a few ideas to control the food intake of your kids, here are some ideas to ensure that they actually need the amount they are eating. Kids need at least 60 minutes of moderate intensity activity every day. You can achieve some of that by being involved with your kids in fun physical games. https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/832861/2-physical-activity-for-children-and-young-people-5-to-18-years.pdf [accessed 11.02.21]

Even a walk every day will help both you and yours kids remain fit. You can vary the intensity and increase the fun quotient by involving in different games, like making your kids catch you as you run ahead for a while.

Get creative!

Doing chores together can be a fun activity. Ditching the car for short trips with a fun walks is also a good idea.

Sports are great too. Try different sports with your kids and see which one they enjoy. However, not every kid who enjoys a sport is destined to become a great player. Encourage them to play for a healthy lifestyle, but don’t pin your ambitions on their shoulders. Let them have fun. In addition, some might not like any of the common sports. It’s important to encourage them to try different activities and find out the one that they enjoy.

Children Games

Teach By Example

It is imperative to teach kids by setting a good example and being a positive role model in fitness. It is hard to expect kids to care about working out, when their parents sit and watch television during all their down time.

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Contrary to popular belief, raising healthy kids don’t have to be expensive or time-consuming.

My goal for Raising Healthy and Natural Children in a Toxic World on Saturday, February 27th at 10:15 am GMT is to share with you simple lifestyle changes to promote deeply-rooted habits.
During this experience, you will learn how to create healthy kid-friendly meals, fun exercise activities, and which supplements your child could benefit from.

I guarantee you will leave with at least one change you can immediately implement for raising a healthy family!

Can’t Wait To Share With You On Saturday, February 27th At 10:15 am GMT!